Living Worship as a Lifestyle Together

Where have you been?

2010-03-31T11:53:00.002-05:00

Well all, we have been very busy with life. Raising a toddler, 2 dogs, and working full-time jobs has really just kept us from working on a blog! Plus family and friends have been able to keep up with us on Facebook, and Joseph has been working on his WordPress to challenge himself to being in the Word daily, and be more open about his life and faith, and his struggles with both.

Also, at the moment, we are separated (not in a bad way!). Amanda has been asked by the Air Force to go and get her PhD, so she applied and got into University of Maryland in College Park, MD. So, Joseph found a job in Washington, DC, and moved ahead of her and Benjamin to work (and find a house and church).

Hopefully come July 2010, we will be reunited!

Just Because

2008-07-14T11:16:00.001-05:00

When we are Weak, He is Strong... Miracles are Real!

2008-07-07T08:24:00.002-05:00

MATTHEW 6:25-26

Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?

That's all we can say... THANK YOU LORD FOR WHO YOU ARE. That's it. We are on the floor, weeping, crying, rejoicing...

A few Miracles have happened yesterday and today that have just given us strength beyond the sorrows. After church, we received an email from someone in Texas who wants to bu your car (amazing!), and this was right after a Pastor had prayed for God to do miracles in our life this week. All we could do after seeing the email (besides taking more pictures of the car as they asked) was rejoice and pray to the Lord, thanking Him non-stop. To some this may be small, but to us it was big!

This morning (Monday) Amanda comes to me around 0645L (6:45am MST, hehe) and wakes me up, she is crying and trying to tell me something was left at the door. My first reaction as a husband is that my wife is crying and said something was at the front door... who's the prankster and who do I have to hunt down! NO!!!! It was nothing even remotely close. She had found on our doorstep a card and a bag of items (baby diapers, dog food, baby food jars, baby wipes, soap, shampoos, toothpaste, and more). We were both thrown back... and in the card was another gift and the scripture of Matthew 6:25-26... and the card, when opened sang the Casting Crowns song, "Praise You In This Storm." This was not big... This was huge!

It was more than we could have ever asked or prayed for... It might not have been a job offer - this was God showing us, in no uncertain terms, that He knows are situation; even when we couldn't see Him through the fog of our situation.

We've prayed and tried to be there for people, maybe not in this exact way, but with our hospitality and food we cooked a free meal and a peaceful place for others to stay...

We pray that we also can be like whom ever the Lord used to do this, and be able to bless people just as much in their time of need as He leads us to do.

God, you are mighty and sovereign, we thank You for who You are and what You are doing; even if we can't see beyond our own two feet. We also thank You for whoever you used on this earth to do what they did for us. We pray you bless them, and they would know our true gratitude and appreciation we have for what happened this morning.

Thank you for being a light in the darkest of nights for myself, Amanda and my child. Though Benjamin may not know of you at this moment (or understand anything related to You), that he will know about You and of You through us as we tell of Your great Mercies, Grace and Blessings upon us, even this day!

Thank you Lord, Thank You Lord. Thank you for everyone in our lives, and thank you for clearing the fog this day!

Prayer Request

2008-07-03T20:20:00.000-05:00

Good Evening All,

Hello from Colorado Springs, Colorado! Amanda, Benjamin and I have been in our house since April, and loving every moment of being homeowners. As you know, Amanda is at a new position at the US Air Force Academy (USAFA) and has fit in very well. I, well, have been looking for work since before we moved (about 3 months) and since we’ve moved here. Countless Job fairs, applying for jobs through all the major sites (Monster, CareerBuilder, ClearedJobs, MilitaryHire, etc) as well as applying through specific company sites (Boeing, Lockheed, General Dynamics, SAIC, etc) with no luck.

Also, some may know, I am a part of a ministry (Outstretched Arms International) where I have to raise my own support. Some has come in, for which I am Blessed and grateful. In the large picture of things though, it has not been enough to keep us “okay.” Now, I am not one to argue with the Lord and God of the universe, so I know He has a plan and for now, we don’t know what that is. I continue to move forward with the ministry however I can with what God has brought to us (military members, local friends, neighbors) and we love to be able to minister to them, even if it’s just a simple “hello.”

With the new house, new baby (5 months old in a week!) and the new bills that come with all is much when you’re a one income family. Especially coming down from a dual-income (“dinc”) family. Now, at the moment we are close to being fine right now with her paycheck as a Captain in the Air Force, but as gas, groceries and other amenities start raising their costs, we are finding it harder and harder to have enough money left over to pay for groceries and gas, especially after paying bills (the bills that go up; oil, gas, water, trash). Even trash collection is rising as they charge a “diesel” charge, which goes up now every 2 months. Scary times.

Here’s the prayer request. I (Joseph) need to find work. It’s so bad, that when I apply to places like Wal-Mart and Target – they turn me down due to being “over-qualified.” Yeah. Good times. What makes finding jobs harder, is that all the companies want to hire me for either California, Washington DC, Virginia, Nevada or overseas (i.e. Iraq, Afghanistan). Well, that’s what we need prayers for. Currently a company is interested in me for Virginia (Just across the street from DC basically), another at Vandenberg AFB, CA and the other is a position for a year in Baghdad, Iraq. The others (CA, VA, NV) are permanent positions, in which I will be there for a while. Of course, Amanda and Benjamin WILL NOT be able to follow due to Amanda’s commitment at the USAFA. As a sacrifice, I will need to go out-of-state (or country) to properly support my family. Nothing, and I mean nothing has come up for the local area. That’s what happens when you’re an Intel guy in a Space community. They just don’t like to mix. Amanda and I have talked extensively on all possibilities (whether a year overseas or a permanent position in the US), and that sadly, it would be a benefit to make this kind of sacrifice.

To be specific, I have applied officially for a position in Iraq after being notified that I was “being considered for the selected position” also, a same message was sent for a possible high-position in Virginia. I just had an hour-and-a-half long phone interview for a position (that I’m not sure how I qualified for?) at Vandenberg AFB, CA and they want to me to contact Virginia to continue the dialogue with their higher-ups.

Our prayer request is to do what we are supposed to do… We want to the right thing, even if that means putting many miles between us. Being apart would definitely “suck” but when it’s the only option, what more can you do? As for the ministry, I plan to continue wherever I end up (locally, far away, or farther away) – the mission field starts outside our front door and extends to the farthest reaches of the world! OAI is there for everyone, not just some (not just Colorado)!

Thanks all for taking the time to read this email and lift us up. We appreciate you all.

Sincerely,

Joseph E. Salmoiraghi

Work Seeking, Continued

2008-07-01T10:15:00.002-05:00

Well, after a small conversation with Amanda, I have begun to apply for jobs posted that are in Iraq, Afghanistan and other Middle East / Southeast Asian countries. Most of these jobs are for 1 year, and pay well (at least we hope they still do).

It would be without my family... but to help be that support, this is a sacrifice that is becoming the only option...

We shall see... <><

No Work, No Money, School, Lots of Stress and our car is for sale

2008-06-30T13:37:00.003-05:00

It's been quite a while since our last update. Stress just doesn't seem to be the word that covers it all.

We are a one-income family at the moment (hopefully not a forever moment). New location, new house, new baby, new school and all the stress that comes with it. I (Joseph) have been to 5 job fairs to no avail. I have applied even at the places of business that are not big companies that do government work (i.e. Wal-Mart, Target, etc.) - where I was either not called back or told I was "over-qualified" for any positions.

I have been searching work since 3 months prior to having to move and since we moved here end of March 2008 (so, about 6 months of searching) through the internet, in-person and job fairs. It almost seems all the effort I put is fruitless. I have a family to take care of and provide for, bills to pay and I am at a loss as what to do that is different from what I am doing. Also, the only jobs that would seem to fit me are positions that are in Denver (which is about 2 hrs - with traffic - each way) or over seas (which is hard due to our 4 month old).

I am still trying, praying and far from giving up. It can be very hard to keep going, but I have much support - First and foremost, my strength comes from the Lord, Second, my wife and my child keep me going when I feel as though I do not have the strength to to even look up.

Okay... on to the positives...

Well, I have lost 15 lbs in just over a month, and I am working out everyday now to make myself healthier (I want to be around for my grandkids and just plain have the energy to play and raise my son). As well as in the process of trying to get back into the reserves as a "weekend warrior." Please be praying I can lose the required weight and pass the entrance physical, this will at least be a partial income to help. So, I am eating better, working out everyday (really, I am working out - some intense stuff) and just doing all I can to be a better Husband and Father to my family.

I am back in school! I am attending Colorado Christian University, studying for a B.S. in Organizational Management in Project Management. Less than a year to go!!!! MAY 2009! Well, I hope all goes well! Thanks to student loans and the amazing Montgomery G.I. Bill, I can finish immediately. I hope and pray the finishing of this degree (or the in-progress part) will help with the job seeking.

Also, we are selling our car, since it's the one you can't fit a baby in, hehe. So, we are hoping it will sell better than a house! So, if you are interested or know someone who is, you can find our car on craigslist (http://cosprings.craigslist.org/car/731604354.html) and firebirdtrader (http://www.camerosandfirebirds.com/page-1503.html) with pictures and some good descriptions of the car.

So yeah, that's life so far...

Holding our heads up high on a cloudy day <><

2 Years, WOW!

2008-06-21T09:06:00.002-05:00

So, we've been married two years as of of yesterday (20 June), and it has been quite the adventure and Blessing!

Some have asked, "What have you learned so far?"

Here's the answer...

"We are different!"

What a revelation, but hey, it's only been two years... We have many, many more to go!

Planes, Trains & Automobiles?

2008-05-05T17:40:00.006-05:00

More like "Dogs, Baby and Automobiles" - yuppers...

Well, it definitely has been a while since our last update... Benjamin David is now 3 months old (as of 8 May), who would have guessed time could pass so quickly? I sure didn't!
We are all moved into our house (in Colorado Springs, Colorado, USA!) - well, as moved in as we can be at the moment (still a lot of boxes to go through!). Will have some pictures up as soon as we deem the house "nice" enough to spread pictures around of, hehe.

Well, let's see - updates since we've been here... hmmm... New dog: "Sammy" a possible Lab / Beagle mix, we adopted him a week ago from PetsMart here in town:

We also had to buy a new vehicle (we discovered that her RAV4 was a little scrunched with two people and a car seat!), so we went and found a used 2004 Jeep Grand Cherokee SE 4x4, 4.7L V8, with under 50K on it!

The Day we bought it - Friday, April 25, 2008

Oh yeah, having fun up in the mountains! It's a JEEP Thing!

Just a stroll at over 9,000 ft.

Colorado Springs, Colorado, USA!

2008-04-24T09:09:00.006-05:00

Hey all, it has been a long time!
Well, we are BACK in COLORADO!!!!

Thats right. We officially moved into our new house (yes, and actual house - and yes, we own it - well, until the mortgage is paid off, haha)

We moved in around the end of March, and we are still unpacking - oh for Joy! The weather here has been incredible, we had snow fall even as of a few weeks ago, it was great. It is pretty dang windy where we are, but the view from our front door is amazing (a perfect view of Pikes Peak!)

Our First Family Portraits!

2008-03-09T23:15:00.005-05:00

Benjamin David Salmoiraghi

2008-02-09T23:19:00.000-05:00

February 8, 2008
6:04 p.m. EST
7lbs, 15oz
20.5" length

Update on "Amanda and the Great Pregnancy!"

2008-02-01T09:58:00.000-05:00

Well, here is the story so far on Amanda and the birthing process on which she is participating on:

Wednesday
1855L.
Starts having contractions that are 30-60 seconds in length and 5 minutes apart. Darn right we got excited.

They last into late evening and sporadic in morning. Intensisty levels on scLe 1-10 are as high as a 6 at times.

Thursday
1030L.
She decides to get checked out to see what is our status with the actual labor. Go to base hospital and get turned into a cyborg for 20 minutes of monitoring. Then awesome Nidwife arrives.

Midwife does checkup; says Amanda is 1 cm dialated, 80% efaced (cervix ready for baby) and she could feel baby's head, meaning he is ready - just waiting for her body to be ready.

So, contractions were her body going into preperations for tv 'big game'

Says baby can be here tomorrow (Friday) or mid-next week. We go home :-)

Friday.

Mother-in-law is flying in.

More to come as it happens...

-posted by the addictive iPhone

Vegas Pics

2007-11-30T23:03:00.000-05:00

Well, as you may (or may not) know, I was TDY to Nellis AFB, which basically is right next door to Las Vegas. So, I stayed at the Las Vegas Hilton (home to Barry Manilow, The Star Trek Experience, some unknown comedians, the guy who won "America's Got Talent" and a pretty good sized off-strip casino). Here are some pics of my adventures in "Sin City"...

Caesar's Palace

Me and the C-Man

The F-A-O Trojan Horse

Baseball's great disgrace - Pete Rose (at Caesar's)

The Venetian

The Rio

The "Strip"

Yup, his bar (& grille)

Sit Ubo Sit, good cat... (the MGM)

Oh yeah, and we visited the base, too...

Silent Monday?

2007-11-26T22:54:00.001-05:00

Yes be Yes, and No be No

2007-11-11T22:15:00.001-05:00

11 NOV 2007 / 1543L EST

Dearest Family, Friends and the Body of Christ, in whom I reside,

It has been a few days, and that is okay. I attended a wedding this past weekend in New Jersey. It was quite beautiful and full of fun. The ceremony was quite different than most I have experienced; it was Episcopalian and was not very different from Catholic weddings I have seen, except they did not do the “unity” candle. There were homily’s in which the congregation participated in the prayers and the actual ceremony; very meaningful and really got my brain thinking (like that takes much these days…). What if the community of believers (and even non-believers in this sense) at the wedding truly walked out what they spoke out during the ceremony? They were asked to say “We Will” if they would do all they could to make sure the relationship was to last till “death do us part”; of course, as with any large group - every one said it and the ceremony moved on without a skip in the rhythm.

What if? I knew some within the ceremony, friends and family of the bride mostly. I knew of some relational hurts, even of divorces, remarriages, etc. You wonder if people vowed, as well as to help them in their time of hurt, and then when trouble came (in whatever fashion), they chose to not be involved; “it’s their own life, it’s not our place to get in the middle,” or whatever excuse can come to mind that we humans use to not be in peoples lives when they really need us (even though every day when there isn’t trouble, we love to be in the middle of everyone’s business). It’s like when we’re driving on the highway, see a car broken down and think, “oh my, hope thy got a cell phone” and continue driving on; but when it’s us on the side of the road, we hope for help – even in the bright light of the day, most cars just drive by and “wish us well.”

What if? What happened to a community of people that walked by their word, took care of the “least of these” as well as, basically, everyone? I would say pick up your Bible and read Acts, but we know community still happens after that, but that is one of the greatest examples (also see the Mennonites and Amish communities for clearer modern examples, really, seriously – they are communities that don’t have Social Security, mostly no insurance or anything – they take care of their own… hmmm, something to think about?). We all sit there on Sundays, Weddings, Funerals (and any other occasions that deal with actually talking to someone or promising something), and say the usual “Yes’s” and “Amen’s” saying we will be there for them no matter what, or if they ever need anything we will be there… in all honesty, most people say it to be comforting and have no plans or thought to actually act on it. Sad. Truly sad. Now, I don’t say it’s everyone, but I am sure most people in this world have done this at least once, why, just because. It makes stuff go by faster; we can leave the sooner we say what we think “they need to hear.” Basically, the next day, we forget we even agreed to be a true community. Instead, we only think of our own community: Me, Myself and I; if it doesn’t benefit Me, why should I even actually do anything? Scary.

What If? I wonder of the over 100 people at this Wedding ceremony in New Jersey, who actually meant what they said; to be a community for people who take care of their own? You know, what we have become, when our words can’t even match our deeds (and vice-versa). That even as Christians we can’t even be people of our word and not even come close to anything considered Honorable, Trustworthy, Virtuous, maybe even Pure or dare I say… Holy.

What if? It starts with us. Not as Christians, or church members… I mean it starts with us individually (Christian, Muslim, Mormon, Jewish, Athiest). If we can’t change on the singular level; how can something that isn’t even singular multiply? It Can’t. I can talk, others can talk all they want on this subject, but it is all for naught if I (or anyone else) can’t or won’t even change my ways. I know I have been here and there with all of this. I know I have driven past the broken down vehicle too many times when I knew I could’ve taken a little out of my day to assist. I know I have said “I will” when it comes to weddings, funerals, etc to be there for friends and family (and I have been on the receiving end as well) and in a few hours forget I even agreed to help.

“Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.’ But I say to you, do not swear at all: neither by heaven, for it is God’s throne; nor by the earth, for it His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King. Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black. But let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No.’ For whatever is more than these is from the evil one.”

- Matthew 5:33-37 (NKJV) *emphasis added

The scripture referenced really speaks to us Christians on how we really need to be when it comes to how we speak to people. If you don’t intend to actually do as you say, don’t say it! At least if you don’t say it, you will know you are being honest, and if they asked why you didn’t say anything comforting (like, “anything you need, I’m here for you”), at least you can point out that if you said it and didn’t mean it: you would be lying. What friend or family member would want to lie? It seems too many.

This is something I know I need to be changing in my own life. When I responded during the wedding, I really meant it. I really hope that if there is anything we can do to help, even if it’s just an ear to listen, that we can offer at least that. Just because we live many states away doesn’t mean that community ends. Community is in the hearts of its members, no matter the distance. I leave you with that. Goodnight.

Picture Friday

2007-10-19T18:56:00.001-05:00

Speechless Wed.

2007-10-17T18:38:00.001-05:00

Food for the Moment

2007-10-15T09:39:00.000-05:00

Hey all,

Just thought I would send a lil’ note as a kind of “food for thought”

Food for the moment:

“It is the LORD your God you must follow, and Him you must revere. Keep His commands and obey Him; serve Him and hold fast to Him.” – Deuteronomy 13:4

When you look at this scripture, what comes to mind? For myself, it really hit home with the last part, holding fast to Him. How do we do that today? What does it look like? Can our schedule even fit that, especially when we have work, school, church, families, friends, dinners, etc…. Our life can become so bogged down with all these things. And yes, we can even do church without holding fast to God (but that is whole other area to dive into, maybe for another day…).

Back to the holding; so how can we do this on a daily basis today? I know my day, weeks and months can be pretty full, and I often lose site of my Lord, as if He grows strangely dim and the world outshines… This is not like the old hymn encourages us with: “Turn your eyes upon Jesus, Look full in His wonderful face, And the things of earth will grow strangely dim, In the light of His glory and grace” (“Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus”, Helen H. Lemmel, 1922). It is even in the midst of our craziness and filled days that we need to keep our eyes on Him, and hold fast to Him.

What does “hold fast” mean? According to the awesome online Dictionary/Thesaurus it means:

Verb

hold fast - stick to firmly; "Will this wallpaper adhere to the wall?"

bind, bond, stick to, stick, adhere

bind - form a chemical bond with; "The hydrogen binds the oxygen"

cling, cohere, adhere, cleave, stick - come or be in close contact with; stick or hold together and resist separation; "The dress clings to her body"; "The label stuck to the box"; "The sushi rice grains cohere"

attach - become attached; "The spider's thread attached to the window sill"

So, a question to ask ourselves is, “am I bonded with my Lord, is there some supernatural superglue in my relationship with God, or am I just using some masking tape here ant here?” Trust me, masking tape does not hold things together well, or for long periods of time (depending on what you are trying to bring together, it may not work at all). Even a little rain, humid day can cause the tape to just fall off. So, where are we in our relationship with God; are we holding fast, or just hanging by a thin thread.

Some things we can all try this week is taking time to talk with Him, whether in prayer, or just talking with Him, really… You don’t have to drop to your knees and cry aloud or say a complicated prayer, just at your desk, while driving, talk to Him. Another is reading His Word, whether with your Bible, or online at www.biblegateway.com, or if you can’t or don’t have physical access, try putting a scripture or two on a sticky note in your wallet/purse/pocket. At least with these options, you can begin to really hold fast to Him, talking to Him and listening to Him and really just seeking Him daily.

Holding fast can seem pretty hard to do when we have trusted others and even ourselves to take care of this and that in our lives. As this verse says, He is the one we are to be looking to, for all things, and it is Him we are to Hold Fast to, always.

I hope this encourages you to begin looking to Him on a daily basis, and not just when you feel you have exhausted your own avenues, no matter what the situation.

Sincerely,

JOE SALMOIRAGHI

Wordless Wednesday

2007-09-05T19:54:00.001-05:00

2007-07-12T14:29:00.000-05:00

I'm bored, and was yelled at to write something on here (ahem, Rachel...)

Four Jobs I've Had

U.S. Army
U.S. Air Force
U.S. Navy
Riverside Research Institute

Four Movies I Can Watch Over and Over Again

Transformers
Ghost Rider
Office Space
Star Trek II: The Wrath of Khan

Four Places I've Lived

Fairborn, Ohio
Aurora, Colorado
Pensacola, Florida
Sierra Vista, Arizona

Four TV Shows I Watch

Battlestar Galactica (the new series)
Law&Order: Criminal Intent
Law&Order: Special Victims Unit
Dirty Jobs

So yeah, that's about it... um, i'm hungry, time to go...

Till next post... <><

Baby's 1st Picture!

2007-06-21T16:13:00.001-05:00

Our baby at 7 WEEKS!!!!

Tentative Due Date: 7 February 2008

Our lil' one is pumping out 144 heart beats per minute!!! (it's a trooper!!!)

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!!!!!! (to my wife, from her husband!)

2007-06-20T15:57:00.000-05:00

Thank you Jesus for this awesome woman! This has been the best year of my life, and it is all because of her (living for You) in my life. I look forward to the many years ahead with you Amanda, and our children (however many the Lord would Bless us with)!

Amanda, you have been such an encouragement in my life since day one. From getting me into the Word seriously and praying for me every day and night. I love it when we read together in bed, falling asleep to the sound of your voice reading God's Word to me. When we get to church, and you are right by my side singing with me to the lord, whether in the pews or Leading Worship for the church.

You have become my best friend, and everyday we grow closer and closer together. Tonight we celebrate how richly we are Blessed; our marriage.

I know my life has never, and will never be the same with you here, and trust me, it has changed for the better and continues down that road every moment!

To all who read this, I just want to proclaim my love for my Proverbs 31, Gift from God, my one-an-only helpmate, my WIFE... Amanda Jeanne.

I love you Amanda Jeanne, Always and Forever...

<3

A REALLY LONG update :-)

2007-06-12T09:33:00.000-05:00

So yeah, it's been awhile since our last post here on the 'ol Blogger. So much to say, but what to say??? Where to start???

Well, I guess we can back track to after my grandfather’s funeral:

April 15 – May 3, 2007

After visiting with family in Connecticut, we returned home to continue on with all we had to do; Amanda with classes and me back to the part-time workforce and school work.

Going back to that while waiting for the full-time job opportunity to show itself can become very stagnating. Stuck… Spiritually, mentally and physically:

Mentally: Not feeling challenged in my college courses; I don’t feel I am earning every “A” or 4.0 GPA I get with each class finished.

Physically: Not satisfied being a part-time worker, more like a Thursday and Friday worker. Wanting to get that phone call that says I can start my full-time job. I was feeling a little lower than the average man and husband.

Spiritually: Slipping in prayer, reading and focusing on the Lord. Feeling no movement closer, yet feeling farther, amazing what feeling stuck can do to a relationship.

May 4 – 20, 2007

A little time later, I received some great news; my full-time job was going to start, but I had to wait two weeks before having a video tele-conference (VTC) with the company vice-president. I was ecstatic that I was finally going to start working for Riverside Research Institute (RRI) (www.rri-usa.org).

The only downside is I had to wait the two weeks; I was bummed, but just happy to know my job was all set. Well, it just happened to be that I cam down with a sinus infection, followed 3 days later, pneumonia (yes, 3 days later!). It sucked a lot to have pneumonia, especially when I have never had that before (and I never wan it again!).

Through that time, I felt my relationship with my wife grow closer as she took care of me. There is just something that brings two together when caretaking is involved. I could seriously feel the ministry of my wife in my life as she prayed over me and cared for me physically. God has blessed me with an amazing woman, wife, lover and best friend.

The weekend spiritually was a small stepping stone. I started to pray more, read a little more (not as much as I was hoping, but a start) and of course, was leading Worship Sunday morning. I was scared to get up there and lead Worship, not only for the earthy logistical reasons (band members missing for the holiday, putting together the set, guest pastor speaking, etc.) u also for the state of my spiritual mindset (as I saw it).

It was definitely a time of growth, and putting aside me and focusing on Him. Amanda and I prayed much before this Worship morning, and just stepped out there, because He is deserving of all our Praise.

The morning went without incident and I came out of the Worship a changed heart, remembering what he called me to do.

May 21 – 28, 2007

Started work on that Monday following the two weeks. It was extremely boring, since I had to wait to start my real job with the company on Wright-Patterson AFB. The way I looked at it is I may have been bored, but at least I was being paid for it! Definitely feeling like a provider now! It was a start, and I was feeling like a man again!

The week, although boring as I waited to get on base, was not uneventful. Two employees from my company came from the base and took me out to lunch to tell me little about what I would be doing for work and basically introduce themselves. Finally, the week ended with a large bar-b-que with the company to celebrate Memorial Weekend, and have a large company meeting.

May 29 – 31, 2007

Finally was on-base and doing the job I was hired on for. You know, working 9 hours never felt so fun (well, working 12 hour shifts was fun, when I did the evenings back in Colorado).

I have my on cubicle, my own phone (2 actually), and 3 computers. It’s not a bad deal at all. It is amazing how much more awake, alive, manly I feel while working. Coming home to a beautiful waiting wife, having worked all day, earning my pay… I just feel like a true husband, a true head of the household.

My Beautiful wife!

Praying has become more of a focus between my wife and I; dedicating time, especially before bed to speaking to Him individually as well as together. Yes, sometimes sleepiness is too much to pray a lot, but I make sure I pray over my every night and morning.

It is a blessing to be a working man and husband for my wife.

June 1, 2007

Now this day was the bearer of the greatest news since our wedding day…

I believe this picture explains it all… J

We found out, by the test and the doctor’s office that we are going to be parents!!! How amazing is that!

Of course, the questions came like a flood… “are you ready?” “was this planned?” “was it a surprise?” “umm, you’re what?”

Our response has been, yes, we are surprised, no, we are not ready (what first-time parent ever is???) and was this planned… well, we say, “we weren’t trying, but we weren’t preventing.” That pretty much sums that up!

Right after we received the call, we made a knee-dive for the floor and started praying over each other, the baby God has blessed us with and my wife and baby’s health. After that, we got up, had a good cry and well, I pretty much started jumping up and down; I am going to be a dad!

June 2 – 3, 2007

This weekend we pretty much started spreading the news to our family and close friends that we had received news of good cheer! That the stork, per say, had visited our home. What a thing to be telling people, that we are pregnant (well, she is, but you know what I mean!)

June 4, 2007

This was Amanda’s 26^th Birthday! Yes, my amazing wife is one year older, one year wiser and more beautiful than ever.

Posing before her Birthday night out

I took her out to Jay’s Seafood restaurant. It is the best place we can go for actual fresh seafood here in Ohio. A little pricey, but worth it once you get that fresh Maine lobster on your plate, mmm mmm! The waiter brought over a cake with a candle at the end of our evening. It was a great night, and Amanda was thoroughly happy.

My baby all dolled up!

June 5 – 6, 2007

Basically, I had class, and not much happened for myself here. Amanda had the wonderful stress of finals, but came out unscathed and ready for the next few weeks off.

June 7 – 8, 2007

Amanda’s sister (my sister-in-law, affectionately called SIL by yours truly) and friend Claire came for a visit. It was so awesome to finally meet my sister-in-law, and a wonderful time too, since the news of our bundle of joy! They brought with them many gifts, including a Sari’ from India…

Gorgeous!

As you can see, she is a natural for Indian beauty. We got to hear their stories, and even try a taste of cultured cuisine; not just Indian. (Minus the meat, since they are vegetarians)

Also, they brought some items from her Aunt Donna. It wasn’t exactly exciting, since they are items she was passing on as she knows her time is near. Amanda cried, and they shared stories of Aunt Donna and Uncle Steve.

Also that evening, as they hung outside with the dog and a friend of ours I went and bought an ice-cream cake (her fav as well as mine!), and put 26 candles on it, and had everyone come in. She was definitely surprised and full after the cake.

June 9, 2007

Well, this was the big day!!!!! Amanda’s Surprise Party!!!! Yes, it was awesome, and she was almost surprised (we kinda arrived early, and her friends arrived same moment, so it kind of gave it away) J

It all happened at Dave & Buster’s in Cincinnati. Everyone had an awesome time playing the games, eating the food and enjoying each others company. Amanda made sure to play a lot of Dance, Dance Revolution (DDR).

All the party-goers and some not there all chipped in for her birthday gift…

An XBOX360 w/DDR Game, 2 DDR Dance Pads, 2 Wireless controllers.

Well, that is the update over the past “few” days J

Till next post… <><

Good-bye Grandpa

2007-04-09T13:22:00.000-05:00

Edward Salmoiraghi
April 28, 1925 - April 9, 2007

This morning, my grandfather died. Edward H. Salmoiraghi. 81 years young. His body was slowly failing him, day by day.

Even though his death was expected, it is still shocking, and painful.

What do i say? I don't know.

Amanda and I were hoping to see him once more this coming weekend during my father's 50th b-day party. We wish we could have sooner now. We rejoice in that Amanda was able to meet him over the Christmas Holiday, and my grandfather fell in love with her (and the puppy) on the spot. He will be missed... Till we see you in heaven...

Please be praying for Amanda and I, my family and especially my grandmother. her world has crashed down around her. She is thankful her children surround her, but to lose a husband, lover and best friend is more than a person can take sometimes.

Thank you Lord for the many days I spent with my grandfather, learning from him, watching him work hard and hear the stories of his life, may I NEVER forget them or lose them in my lifetime or my children's.

New Weapons of Worshipping Warfare (Coming Soon!)

2007-03-30T08:15:00.000-05:00

Well, with help of an awesome brother, and the money I have put aside; a new member of my arsenal of worship weapons...

Gibson Les Paul Studio Electric Guitar

Gibson Case :-)

VOX ToneLab SE Tube Driven Modeling Floorboard Processor

Some of you may be wondering... "Why?!?!?!" Well, it is simple... As many of you realize, I have been a primarily acoustic Worship Leader and have been wanting to extend to some electric work, rhythm and some lead training. With this equipment I can begin some serious expansion of my playing skills. Especially as I am leaning more towards Hillsong / Hillsong United / Desperation Band style of Worship Leading. Also, as I expand my talent borders, is learning to the use the electric in a softer environment, like Tomlin, Redman, Crowder, Hall and other Contemporary Worship artists.

God is good and worthy of our praise! I am excited to receive these tools into my hands, to turn them right back to Him in song!

As you may/or may not know, my wife and I are available to lead Worship if you have a need or a want in this area. You can contact us through here or at j.michael.project@gmail.com or at our MySpace page.

- God Bless <><

Semi-Wordless Wed?

2007-03-28T11:29:00.000-05:00

Chris Tomlin (left) and Matt Redman (right) live in Columbus, OH, March 25th
Worshipping Loud and Clear!

A New Day Begins

2007-03-17T14:49:00.000-05:00

A new day, what does it hold and why?

Priorities change. Once the borders and lines that separated the priorities were skewed and blurred beyond recognition. How did this happen? It could have been when we both started school work and found ourselves stressed and when needing relaxation, we chose to do it right before bed with the warming glow of the television.

it started slowly, with the addiction of Law & Order:SVU and Law & Order:CI, then on to the talk radio programs of Neil Boortz, Rush Limbaugh, Sean Hannity, Howard Clark and Michael Savage. It began to replace the sermons I loved on CDR (Cedarville University's Radio Station) Radio, and the music I was listening to on, sadly, K-Love (as many of you know, I can't stand the 'soccer-mom' oriented programming on this particular syndicated radio station...), even forsaking the FM Transmitter for my iPod (gasp!), and still choosing to listen to the talksters.

Soon prayer left the room faster than a fat Elvis looking for the last apple strudel, and the personal worship time was replaced personal laziness and school work. Instead of praying for each other we were arguing over who was more stressed (obviously she was and is - Master's vs. Bachelor's, you take a guess).

As this oh-so-cute picture shows, is how I felt for each day.

"for it is light that makes everything visible. This is why it is said: 'Wake up, O sleeper, rise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you.'" - Ephesians 5:14

Basically as I lost sight of the Lord, I lost site of my own wife. She became lost, as she looked for spiritual (and earthly) guidance and leadership. I started to become which I hated and she feared, I was becoming that which she had not married. What was I to do? I knew what I had to do, but how would I do it, what did it take, why did I fear returning to the Lord?

Well, last night I came to a pivotal point of change. I truly realized this and where I was as I was taking care of my wife. I was doing all for her, in love, laundry, dishes, at her beckoning call no matter what she asked. I realized this is what she needs everyday (maybe not the extreme as when she is sick, but still the same none-the-less); for it to be in love, but Christ's love, by His Word and by His strength.

I need to get back in the Word, back in personal prayer time (which leads to praying for and with my wife daily, even more than daily!) and once again pick up my guitar not just for Worship practice, but for my own personal Worship experience. And Worship for myself and us as a couple; yet it is all for Him, from us.

Today has been the turning point. Last night I fell on bended knees to my wife and prayed for God's grace to be in my life. I know I am forgiven (by God and by her), but no longer could I walk/run/crawl under my own power and strength, but only by His. I was on my knees praying, and weeping and felt the strength I needed to start this move forward in the right direction on the right path - His.

I went to bed a different man than who walked and talked during that morning. I awoke feeling renewed and refreshed; I still have many obstacles and personal habits (i.e. not reading the Word, not praying) I need to walk through and break. Today has been no exception, I have found it hard to pick up the Bible, but I will, and pray (which I did in the shower, actually keeping the talk radio off on the shower radio). I want to change, my wife wants me to change and above all, god wants me to change and led me to Him in his own way.

Now, I am taking the steps needed to keep my true priorities in check and solid this time. (1) GOD - (2) FAMILY - (3) SCHOOL - (4) WORK.

It's been a good day of slightly slacking (I will admit), but also laundry, looking good (shaved, decent and all for my wife), taking care of my wife and listening to Worship flow through the house on our stereo system.

Now, I am off to walk the dog and return to homework and spending time in the Word with my wife; who knows, I might even pick up the guitar and sing a song to Him?

It's a new day, the possibilities are endless...

It is well with my soul

2007-03-16T16:04:00.000-05:00

Amanda has been home and doing well. She has been uncomfortable, sore, but thanks to the creation of percocets, she is feeling fine.

Thanks to all of you who prayed, called, emailed and texted your encouragement to us.

It has been a rough ride even for just me and my faith, as a husband and a man.

On a side note, I am seeing where my priorities are. But... I will leace that to another thought-filled blog.

Thank you all.

update on my wife.

2007-03-13T06:47:00.001-05:00

Well, it feels like the night took forever to pass by. I know I slept, but very little and in spurts. About 10 minutes until I leave to head to the hospital and see my wife and hopefully not much longer until we can take her home. I miss her dearly. Especially when she is in such pain and doscomfort, I just want to take care of with all I am.

Thank you all for your prayers, especially for her. I will keep you updated as the days go by...

I Love my Wife

2007-03-12T21:31:00.000-05:00

It's late, and I find it hard to sleep without my beautiful bride next to me this evening. The surgery went well today, a little longer than expected due to a few things that they had to do they didn't expect.

I hope she sleeps well this evening, she is sleepy, but still uncomfortable enough not to sleep. I sang to her over the phone, per her request, hoping this would help relax her. I am not sure if did, but a little Worship lifted her spirits and made her yawn. All in His hands.

She said when she awoke from the anesthesia that she cried, due to it hurt so bad (they gave her morphine after arriving to the recovery room). I wish I could have been able to do something.

She will be home tomorrow, and that is exciting. I know she will be uncomfortable, and I hope I am able to do everything I can to take care of her and help her heal.

Yet, for now, I can't sleep; wishing I was with her to hold her hand and help her sleep and relax.

It will be great to see her tomorrow and get her home as soon as possible.

Thanks to all of you for your prayers and support.

Wordless Wed.

2007-02-21T15:07:00.000-05:00

President's Day

2007-02-19T11:33:00.000-05:00

So, welcome to the great holiday of President's Day. No parades, no cool cartoon specials, but a lot of car deals... go figure.

So yeah, another weekend has passed us to bring us this day off (no complaints here). The weekend went by very well, I think? Saturday was relaxing; we were up at 8 to be prepared to lead the worship practice for Sunday at 10am. The practice went extremely well, i am so impressed every day by the talent and hearts of the band I get to work with. After the practice, Amanda and I ended up going to see "Ghost Rider" at the nearby theater, it was frigging awesome. We left the movie very satisfied and impressed, and were glad to be one of many who helped the movie gross as the top movie of the weekend. Next, we headed home and played with the puppy, and shoveled the driveway, again (we love the snow!). We ended up going to bed pretty early since we were going to be up even earlier to have a last-minute practice at 8am before 1st service (we were only leading 2nd service this time). Well, being tired, not eating sure kills my voice, so for myself, the practice didn't seem the best; let's just say I was excited for the chance to get home, eat something change and rest my voice with some hot teas.

Sunday, 2nd Service, 11am. From where I was leading Worship, all seemed to go A-OK, but when i looked into the ones Worshiping, it was a different story. They just were not participating as they have before. Some sang, some stood there and stared at the band. I know we played a few new songs, but this was just a very empty time for them, and I did not know what to do except pray as I worshiped. It was very hard, like walking through mud, or deep snow. By the end of the service, I was very tired. As a worship leader, I am leading people into Worshiping God, did I fail? I found through some friends, that the sound was not mixed well, and during the last set before dismissing, my voice was not very audible. I don't know, I could blame technology, but was it more of me than the sound techs? It is during these moments, that I know what God has called us to do, but I just want to lay my weapon of Worship (guitar/voice) down and take a break from it all. I know I can't. How can I better worship my King? How can I be more open and available for Him to use me as He chooses?

So today, I just reflect as my wife and I enjoy this day together. We didn't even roll out of bed until 11, we watched "Little Miss Sunshine," which was an adorable movie. As we just spent that time in each others arms, I just wanted to stay there forever, loving her and being loved. We haven't talked about yesterday at all, mostly because I forbade it right after we left church (due to I felt so weak and wanted to solve this on my own). Today, i think we ma talk more and pray about it and just seek Him through His Word and through Worship (however that may be acted out - song, silence).

Well, till next time my friends, whomever and wherever you are.

Finally, a new post!

2007-02-13T19:13:00.000-05:00

So, yeah, it's been awhile my friends! Sorry for the delayed posting, we have had quite the stress the past few weeks and month.

First off, my grandfather in Connecticut is slowly dying. He does know the Lord. As of right now, he is unable to hear or walk and his feet are turning black. He is 81 years old. Much stress in upon my family, especially my grandmother. She is unable to take care of him due to her failing health and now her depression as he gets worse. Right now he is in a rehab home, and their medic-care will only pay for 20 days in the home - beyond that is $100/day ut of my grandmothers pocket. She cannot afford that, so y father has hired them a lawyer to make sure their home is untouchable (which has worked) and her their savings (in progress), or else they will be broke in a few months time; if my grandfather is alive that long. The prayer is now that the Lord will take him home and away from the pain and silence.

Second, my wife has found out that she does need surgery for an unmentioned (as in I know, God knows and family knows) reason and there are a plethora of "ifs' and "ands" that can come out of it; especially on the subject of us having a child. So please pray for her and I, since for me as a husband, I want to do everything I can (beyond prayer) to help her and be there for her and that is hard when all you can do is trust the Lord and pray.

Third, for me as I have been looking for a job to support my family with so we can no longer be a one-income family. As we all know, unless you are a Worship Pastor, leading Worship does not bring any pay; well that is me. I have been going to school as well as a few hours here and there at my friends Greek restaurant. It just has not been enough for us. So, I had an interview with a company last week that is contracted by the US Government for a job I have 7 years experience in. They want me! So, after a year out of the career field I was int he Air Force, I am hopefully going to be back on the saddle again and bringing home the proverbial bacon for my wife! The prayer is since I have not used my security clearance in just about a year, they need to check into it to reactivate and see what they need to do (if I need to do paperwork, etc); that the Lord's hand would be in the midst of that so my job can be official and I can head my happy butt back into the workforce and a job I truly enjoy doing.

So, as you can see, it's been a crazy few months for us. Love you all and thanks for your prayers, and oh yeah, pray and tell Rachel and Nathan to get their butts over for a visit, haha!

Christmas in Connecticut!

2006-12-25T15:28:00.000-05:00

I think that is a movie title? Oh well, moving on... So yeah, we are both in Connecticut (good 'ol CT) in the town of Bristol visiting Joe's family. We had a wonderful Christmas Eve midnight service and a beautiful non-white Christmas Day morning. Well, nex we head to New Jersey to visit with Amanda's family. We are so excited to see them and they an see the puppy!

Wordless Wed?

2006-12-13T13:39:00.000-05:00

Relaxing Saturday...

2006-12-02T17:06:00.000-05:00

We are enjoying a most relaxing Saturday here at the Salmoiraghi household. It has been one of those crisp cold days, kinda nice. Joe ended up grilling a couple steaks on the grill, and the puppy watched intently. Amanda cleaned house a lil' bit and worked on Christmas stuff. And there was great rejoicing... yay.

Verily I say unto you, Joe has a lot of homework due by Sunday night. Two papers to be exact, has he started them... nope. Will he start them... only the Lord knows that answer.

We found out some medical stuff on our new family member. He has a heart murmur, which at his age (3 months), is a congenital disease. Hereditary. No fun. The price we paid for him at the pet store is that of if he was a pure-bred AKC registerable dog. They only offer to take the dog back and refund or trade-in. Well, we don't want to give him up, we love him so.

So, we are off to the pet store to at least inform them of the issue of dogs who are coming from breeders who are producing pets with medical issues.

Be Blessed!

So, we got a...

2006-11-27T20:57:00.000-05:00

PUPPY!!!! Yuppers, we sure did. He is a 3month-old (as of tomorrow), Shiba Inu. He is about as rambunctious as any young boy-child! His name is Copernicus, we just call him "Copper." So, yeah, we are a mommy and dayy, kind of, haha. praise God for this prescious pup!

He loves people, so he asked for anyone in the area or just wants to visit, they shoul see him! Yupp, that's what he pup says!

Amanda playin' with him

Joe and the little guy

matches the season

His big 'ol tongue

Turkey Fryer + 17lb Turkey + 2 People = YAY!

2006-11-23T14:05:00.000-05:00

So, I just had to tell you all (whoever "all" of you might actually be) that deep-frying a turkey is just the best dang thing since, well, okay... sliced bread! I mean sliced bread is awesome, but come on, anyone can slice bread with a knife anyday. So yeah, it was awesome, tasted great, fresh and juicy! Now, we have a ton of leftovers to make home-made turkey pot-pies and jsut stuff to eat for a while, yay God!

yo - Joe <><

PS - HAPPY THANKSGIVING! What are you thankful for?

School, ugh

2006-11-19T20:45:00.000-05:00

Hey, this is Joe here. A bunch of assignments due by Midnight tonight... Not fun. Rule #1= don't slack again! Rule #2= never take 8week condensed courses online... EVER!

We just got back from leading worship for the Hillside Chapel Youth Group here in Fairborn. It was awesome, to be honest, I needed it. I, myself, have been in a kind of spiritual funk. I feel drained, emptied out.

Tonight helped me to come to a point of getting very close to joy, His joy. It's really ahrd to explain, maybe I will pour out my heart in a later post... <><

- Joe

Hi!

2006-11-17T12:39:00.000-05:00

So, I thought I would give this a try along with our MySpace blogs,
let's see how this goes!

God Bless!